This myth, like the previous one, in my opinion, increases the general tension around sex. Women https://lovesper.com/escorts/canada/mississauga-escorts are told exactly how, how often, in what positions and why they should experience orgasm. Orgasm has become both a goal and an indicator of the quality of sex.
The neuroticism of the situation also affected men: sexologist Andrzej Grishevsky in the book “He. An intimate conversation about that very organ” does not highlight the problem with orgasms in men as a separate request (since the male orgasm is closely related, for example, to erectile dysfunction), but says that a sign of our time is men imitating orgasm. “Before, if someone faked an orgasm, it was a woman, and a man, if he didn’t want sex, didn’t have it, and that’s it. And now men force
themselves to have sex, fake orgasms, and then cum from porn, secretly.”
The most important thing to take away from studying this problem is that it is your sensations that are important, not your orgasm. And focusing on the inevitable achievement of the “final” deprives you of the pleasure of sex.
Don’t panic
In my previous article, I gave specific techniques on how to work with neurotic feelings around orgasm. First of all, remember that lack of orgasm is not a problem with sex. Carefully filter the information you receive. Read trusted and peer-reviewed popular science literature. Analyze your experiences, play out situations, look for an emotional response. This is a good technique for the harmonious development of your sexuality.
